Women It's YOUR FAULT Too!

I didn't say it.....

Tracy McMillan a tv writer just wrote an article for The Huffington Post entitled  "Why You're Not Married". It's aimed at women and let me just say i'm glad another woman said the things that she did instead of a man lol.

Since dating, relationships, sex and marriage is a big topic in our society i'm curious about the opinons of the women out there after reading this. Does Ms McMillan make some valid points in your opinion or is she just talking out her a$$?

A brotha i know summed it up this way after reading the article, "She may not have the answer to it all but she made a lot of good points". I have to agree with his opinon.....

What are your thoughts?

Does It Always Have To Be Left Up to the Man?

Been doing some reading and i came across this post [Why Men Pop the Question]on CNN.com which examined why when it comes to propasals for marriage that it is left up to the man to do the action in a society that seeks gender equality. The author, Kay S. Hymowitz makes two main points:

1. it represents the reassertion, however brief, of repressed gender roles
2. Proposal lets men show they're thoughtful, loving, sincere, good potential mates

That last point got my mind going.....